Christmas & Advent
Christmas is the most important and beloved holiday in the Sculley home. Paul & Karen decided when we became parents that we wanted to keep the focus of Christmas on Christ and not on “stuff” – for that reason, we do not give Christmas gifts per se, but we do fill a Christmas stocking for each person. Karen knits one-of-a-kind stockings for each one, using this pattern she has developed over the years. We begin our Christmas celebrations at the beginning of Advent and have important traditions we enjoy throughout Advent and on Christmas Eve and on Christmas Day. Scroll down for more details on each of these.
Advent
Advent is a season of the liturgical year observed in most Christian denominations as a time of expectant waiting and preparation for both the celebration of the Nativity of Christ at Christmas and the return of Christ at the Second Coming. Advent is the beginning of the liturgical year in Western Christianity and is part of the wider Christmas and holiday season. Advent is a period in which we are invited to set aside time each day during a typically busy season preparing for Christmas to rejoice in the coming of our Savior, Christ Jesus, and to respond to God’s invitation to us to join with Him in what He’s doing today.
We celebrate the season of Advent by reading a daily Advent story / Scriptures / prayers – e.g. Jotham’s Journey, Bartholemew’s Passage, Tabitha’s Travels, Ishtar’s Odyssey. Recently, Karen started a Multimedia Advent Devotional project, a wonderful collaboration with our church family, which she hopes to continue for years to come! For about 25 years, we sent annual letters around Christmas time, something we no longer do as our children have all grown up and have their own stories to tell.
Christmas Eve
We start our Christmas celebrations by attending church together on Christmas Eve. Whoever is present in our home on Christmas Eve receives one special gift (often new pajamas).
When our children were young, and because one of them had an early December birthday, we traditionally did not put up our Christmas tree until after celebrating that. Decorating the tree and putting up lights continues to be important! Everyone (all ages) receives a chocolate Advent calendar, a tradition we’ve continued! When we have children in our home, I read aloud a portion of an Advent story each day (here’s our four-year rotation: ). We participate in an annual Advent devotional journey with our church family (like the collaborative Multimedia Advent Devotional project above). Of course we enjoy many Christmas carols and songs throughout the season! The most important part of our family Christmas Eve & Christmas Day celebrations have become . . .
Christmas Day
When our family moved to Russia in 2008, we began what has become an enduring tradition – Christmas Around the World! We celebrate traditions from 10 different countries each year (each year, two countries are retired and two more added). We take turns reading aloud the traditions from a country and then we celebrate one specific tradition (sometimes just as it is done in that country, sometimes adapted).
We have many times closed our Christmas Day celebrations / wound down by watching a movie together, e.g. A Charlie Brown Christmas, The Nativity Story, Les Miserables, Joyeux Noel, The Phantom of the Opera, The Passion of the Christ, The Jesus film, The Visual Bible: Matthew, The Visual Bible: Acts, Home Alone, Jesus of Nazareth, It’s a Wonderful Life, The Nutcracker, The Christmas Shoes, Whose Christmas Is It Anyway / Celebrate Me Home (original plays performed at the Atlanta Vineyard).